Friday, August 1, 2008

Nicki

I just wanted to take a minute to reflect on some thoughts that I feel overwhelmed with. As some of you may know my younger sister is adopted and has special needs. Her name is Unique- but we call her Nicki. She unexpectedly passed away this last week on Friday, and yesterday was her funeral. I'm obviously very upset, but I'm so grateful for the gospel in my life and the knowledge that I have of Temple ordinances that seal families together for time and eternity. I'm so grateful for Nicki in my life. She's been with our family for over 15 years and is obviously like a little sister. She brought such a sweet spirit to our family as well. I believe many life lessons I've learned, are because of her. The gospel is such a great gift. It brings us knowledge that is priceless in the life. I feel strongly that I need to share this great knowledge that I'm so blessed to have with others. She will be missed greatly but I'm so happy to know that we will one day see each other again, and be able to be an eternal family.

7 comments:

Mandyloo said...

I am so sorry to hear that Kellie. You have a great outlook on things and that is the best attitude to have. I have never had anyone particularly close to me die, but I don't know how easy it would be to feel the same way you do. My thoughts are with you and your family!!

zippy said...

I'm so sorry Kelli for your loss. I had no idea about the blessing that Nicki was in your life. Thank you for sharing her touching story.

Brandi Jo said...

You guys all did a great job speaking at the funeral! Despite the circumstances... it was really good to see everyone! Love ya!

Celeste M. Amazing said...

Hey Girl.
I'm really sorry about your sister. I appreciated to hear your testimony and will continue to pray for your family.

Britt said...

Oh Kelli. I don't even have the words to show you how much compassion I am feeling for you right now. We love you. Thank goodness for the knowledge we have. Can you imagine if we didnt know about this wonderful plan we have? I hope you find some comfort in that.

Anonymous said...

Because of the talks you and Becca and Rocky gave at Nikki's funeral I feel a greater need to reach out to those like Nikki. Unfortunately I tend to shy away because I don't know what to do or say, but as you all spoke about how Nikki's face would light up when people would say hi to her or talk about her I felt I should do more to come out of my box and try to bring happiness to those who really deserve it. Thank you Kellie!

Anonymous said...

I think I'm right there with you on losing someone so special. When Riley was born last year I never could have imagined the blessing she would be in our lives, the lives of our friends, and our family. I'm sure your sister was that and more! And... Just think, her spirit isn't confined to her body and it's limitations anymore. Riley's body only allowed her to live with us here on the earth for one hour and a half but she sure made a difference. I'm fully confident, even though I didn't have the opportunity to know your sister, that she made a huge difference in her time here on this earth. Her work is done here but I'm sure she is continuing to work hard on the other side of the veil.